are these problems too much to overcome? confused about this guy i dated.?
ok, here's the thing. we seem to share the same spiritual beliefs. he's very bid, nurturing and treats me like a queen. we could talk approximately anything. relationship for 4 months, and i broke up with him. he hasn't stopped sending poems, love songs, roses, etc...he continues to proclaim his love for me.....here are the problems: 1) i walked in once and caught him with my wallet in his hand. he had taken it out of my purse when i was in another room...had a lame excuse for the reason (but i honestly don't think he was looking for money)....2 he had a sexual dysfunction that i couldn't figure out....3 he was very fast moving with the relationship. i miss the wonderful connection we had, but can't get past these other issues...what's your take? i really did feel love for him. he definitely talks a good talk, seems very sincere, desperately wants to be with me...maya angelou says when someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. should i give a moment chance or no? sidenote: he's in his late 40's.
Stay away from this guy. Caught him with your wallet. A sexual dysfunction. My first guess is a con man. Tell him he has no chance with you and if he continues to contact you a restraining order will be coming his way.
Whether you do not love him any more or respect him anymore then dump him and tell him to stop sending all this mushy stuff.But i would advise you to confront him about the wallet and whether he gives you the same lame excuse which he gave earlier then tell him you are not a fool and you want the truth. whether he still doesn't have the guts to own up then he probably is worth dumping after all!!!!
Give him a moment chance he is really trying to show you how much he loves you and how much he wants to be with you. If you really love him, no matter if there is something wrong with him, you will take him back and accept him for who he is.
He had his hand in your wallet. Whether you stay with him he will always,always have his hand in your wallet, if it's for money or finding stuff out approximately you that you didn't select to tell him.
The sex thing- he may be nervous,but sex is a big part of the picture and you'll receive frustrated whether you're with him.
Why was he fast moving?Why is he going overboard with the flowers etc?
Is it that he's controlling and wants to dictate this relationship?
You broke up with him so you couldn't have been that happy.
He's not going to change.Find someone else before you waste more time on this guy.
i know it ll be a bit personal bt if this relationship is moving very fast thn give him some time.. if u two din hv sex thn give him a bit time... he s curious abt u.. he likes u for sure and thats y he's feeling insecure tht if u fall in love with sum1ls.. got it???
he loves u i gues. to me its certain infact.. so give ur relation a bit time see what does he really want...
This one is too suspicious acting to me, Run for the hills, sister!!!!!
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No. He is showing signs of deceitful behaviour. Taking your wallet was a very poor object to do no matter the reason he gave you. He will snoop around more and more. Also, if he's over 40 he should know better. He should know that love does not come that quickly and he should be saying different things for you. I think he's not balanced. I would be really careful if I were you. Get to know him, really, asking really probing questions. Do not invest more emotions until you are certain he's mentally balanced.
Treating you like a queen is ok but con men do it well, don't they? So psychopaths at the beginning.