Why dont i get aroused anymore?!?
Im 19, and i have had a good sex life with an ex partner, and i used to really enjoy it! however, it seems since we broke up ive noticed a few things... i became less aroused when i tried to pleasure myself.. which is very unusual, also it took me extremely longer to reach a pathetic climax and left me dis-satisfied my clit nearly has disappeared it seems
dryness
loss of feeling/stimulation and as i went back to my ex not that long ago, it wasn't the same, it didn't even feel good, in fact it was painful inside and mentally miserable. that's not because the feeling has changed towards him, there is something wrong with me. im scared of going to the docs... i don't even know who to ask really. i know i have no Sti's or Std's so this must be something to do with me. Ive read of this Fds- which is a female sexual dysfunction.. and its pretty much the same as that... sooo i was just wondering if anyone can help or has been through the same! its starting to frustrate me! please help... thanks em
im not on hormonal birth control
you just need to find some one you love and give em' a good old fuck.. im sure that will make it better and if it doesn't i might be Fds or something
Hey- decreased libido is a common side of effect of many medicines- especially antidepressants. If you have diabetes that can happen too. Stress will cause that. Poly Cystic Ovaries. Whether it's putting some turmoil in your sex life, I would see a gynocologist. Make sure matters are ok, ya know. Im sure you'll be fine but sounds like you need some reassurance and may need medically adressed.
Are you on hormonal birth control? It is fairly common for bc to reduce sex drive over time or immediately upon starting the medication. I tried 2 different pills and eventually my sex drive disappeared with both of them. (also had symptoms of dryness like you mentioned)
Depression can severely impact your sexual health. How have you been feeling mentally? First steps could be to make certain your lifestyle is still healthy (eating correct, exercising regularly, decent sleep) because whether any of these facets is thrown off your libido will suffer. In general, you are your wettest as a teenager but it would be early for you to notice a big chance, especially whether it happened suddenly so that might not be relevant. Ups and downs in your sex life are completely normal though so hopefully this is just a phase!
This could be caused by many things. You state that you went back to your ex, but I am not clear whether you are still with him or not. There are numerous things, both circumstances and medical conditions, which can cause lack of libido.
Depression
Stress
Lack of stimulation
Poor quality sex
Hormone imbalance
The Tablet
Weak pelvic floor muscles
Diabetes and other medical conditions
I think you should go to chat to one of the lady doctors in your practice and see what she can do to help you through this bad patch you are going through. I am certain they could also help you at your family planning clinic whether you preferred. Don't be worried approximately going, just remember, they have seen it all before and it won't be anything new for them and I am sure they will have a good idea as to what your trouble is and will be able to offer you a solution.
lack of libido
Basically how sexual arousal works (more apparent in men), is that you become masochistic, enjoy the matters that annoy, anger, or disgust you. If you can't do this, you probably have low levels of norepinephrine, which is closely related to adrenaline. If you lack it, you might have difficulty feeling this way. It's a secret though, not numerous people know )
Remember that it's chiefly psychological, and that it works the opposite way. Think negative... and it'll all turn positive
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My guess would be lack of libido, arousal, foreplay, or perhaps you may have a past of being sexually abused or witnessing abuse or sexual abuse in your child hood, I would consult a sexual psychologist who specializes with teen issues. You could also talk to your Obgyn,